Saying goodbye on the water can bring a sense of peace that few places offer. A private memorial or ash-scattering cruise aboard Provocatrix provides a calm, dignified setting to gather loved ones, share memories and honor someone special.
A Peaceful Place to Remember
For many families, the water held special meaning for the person they have lost. Provocatrix offers a quiet, comfortable space for up to 12 guests to come together — sheltered by a heated full-glass enclosure, with calm open water and the gentle Seattle skyline as a backdrop. Our crew is attentive and discreet, allowing your family the privacy and time you need.
Ash Scattering with Care
We accommodate ash-scattering ceremonies with respect and care, cruising to a calm, meaningful location on Lake Washington, Lake Union or Puget Sound. Whether you wish to hold a short, simple ceremony or spend a longer afternoon sharing stories and reflections, we will move at the pace that feels right for your family. There is no hard sell here — only a willingness to help you create a fitting tribute.
Gathering Your Family
A memorial cruise allows family and close friends to come together away from the formality of a hall or chapel. You are welcome to bring flowers, photographs, music or readings, and we can help with simple arrangements such as light refreshments. If you have questions about timing, location or what is appropriate, our team is glad to talk it through with you gently.
Memorial Charter FAQs
Can we hold an ash-scattering ceremony?
Yes. We carry out ash-scattering cruises with care and respect, cruising to a calm, meaningful spot on the water for your ceremony.
How many people can come aboard?
Up to 12 guests, allowing close family and friends to gather comfortably in a private, sheltered setting.
Can we bring flowers, photos or music?
Of course. You are welcome to personalize the ceremony, and our crew will help quietly with any simple arrangements you need.
How long is a memorial cruise?
A 4-hour charter ($4,000) suits most ceremonies; longer charters are available if your family would like more time. Captain’s fee, fuel, cleaning and gratuity are not included.
A Setting That Brings Comfort
There is something about open water that helps people grieve and reflect. The pace slows, the city noise falls away, and families often find it easier to share memories and say what they need to say. A memorial cruise is not about ceremony for its own sake — it is about giving the people who loved someone a calm, private place to be together. Many families tell us the time on the water felt more meaningful, and less heavy, than they expected.
We approach every memorial charter with care and flexibility. There is no script you must follow and no rush. Whether you want a brief, simple gathering or a longer afternoon of remembrance, we will quietly handle the practical details so your family can focus entirely on one another and on honoring the person you came to remember.
Is the crew experienced with memorial cruises?
Yes. Our crew handles memorial and ash-scattering charters with discretion, patience and respect, giving your family the space and privacy you need.
Can the cruise go to a specific location?
Where possible, yes — if there is a meaningful spot on Lake Washington, Lake Union or Puget Sound, let us know and we’ll do our best to bring you there.
Arrange a Memorial Cruise
When you are ready, we are here to help. Reach out online to arrange a private, compassionate memorial or ash-scattering cruise aboard Provocatrix.